UNH, you are so perfect, and I love to wander through your barren pathways. Every day, I fall more and more in love with your potholes and dead grass. But I experience the most peace when I think about the things of the past — like the tree that used to stand proudly in the Maxcy Quad. Maxcy Hall Perhaps my favorite place to be is the area behind Bergami and in front of Kaplan, which has become a wind tunnel. Every time I exit Berg, there’s nothing quite like the taste of my hair flying into my mouth at 10 a.m. Kaplan Hall When I escape the wind and want other ways to reconnect with nature, I find myself going to the green behind Bixler to take in the lush trees of beautiful Connecticut. No matter the season, one tree always remains greener than the rest, and that is proof that things will be OK. Bixler Hall When it’s too cold to bear and I need to quickly get from one side of Bergami to the other, I take the secret passage located in the basement — which has never once made me feel scared! Bergami Hall Bergami Hall Basement And to wind down, I like to take in the art of the campus — specifically that weird metal statue near the shuttle stop, which, for my Pokémon Go enjoyers, is a PokéStop. Shoutout to that! I'm not sure what this is, honestly. Each day, I am astounded by the beautiful campus we are lucky to call home. It is warm and inviting, and I have never once had a complaint about my surroundings. UNH, I love you despite your many, many flaws and cherish every place where water pools when it rains, forcing me to walk through the mud. Thank you for being you.

College is a time for self-discovery, academic growth, and, apparently, repeatedly swiping past the same five people on Tinder. At the University of New Haven, dating apps aren’t just a casual pastime; they’re a chaotic social experiment where the odds of matching with your ex’s roommate are higher than getting a parking spot in the Library Lot at noon. With a five-mile radius that keeps things nice and awkward, students are forced to navigate the same familiar faces, questionable bios, and the occasional sighting of a professor’s profile (we don’t have time to unpack all of that). The campus dating pool is a self-contained ecosystem where everyone somehow already knows each other. You can match with someone today, and by tomorrow, your entire friend group will have their Instagram, Snapchat, and embarrassing high school prom photos. Want to avoid matching with classmates? Too bad. By mid-semester, your options are a guy from your 8 a.m. lecture, a former group project partner who ghosted you after the final, and someone who still owes your roommate $20 from freshman year. Expanding the radius might help, but let’s be honest—no one is driving to Yale just for a first date. Then there’s the profile lineup, a curated selection of gym selfies, hiking photos (from that one time they went outside), and bios that range from “Looking for my Player 2” to “Not here for hookups, unless you’re down.” The athletic department’s finest make sure to include their height (for the record, no one believes you’re actually 6’2”), while business majors flex LinkedIn-style with “Entrepreneur | Hustler | DM for stock tips.” Meanwhile, the music kids hold out hope that someone will be impressed by their ability to play Wonderwall  on guitar. The horror doesn’t stop there. Thanks to the magic of campus Wi-Fi, you can match with someone at 10 p.m., make small talk for an hour, and then, like clockwork, run into them the next morning in line for Dunkin’. There’s no greater test of emotional resilience than making eye contact with someone who just hit you with the “lol wyd” text at 2 a.m. Should you say hi? Pretend you don’t recognize them? Transfer schools? These are the real questions Tinder doesn’t prepare you for. Then there’s the infamous Post-Match Ghosting Ritual. You know the one—where you and your match exchange a few lines of small talk before one of you inevitably disappears like a freshman during an 8 a.m. class. Maybe they saw you in broad daylight and got a sudden case of selective amnesia. Perhaps they got distracted by midterms, an existential crisis, or another match who promised them they “totally look like young Leonardo DiCaprio.” Whatever the reason, expect at least one person per semester to resurface in your messages with a casual “Hey, sorry I disappeared lol” six months later. Some brave souls do attempt actual campus dates, which, given the limited venue options, means you’re either grabbing a $9 coffee, sitting in complete silence, or awkwardly walking circles around the Bixler Quad while pretending you’re totally not out of things to talk about. Bonus points if your RA sees you mid-date and immediately texts the group chat with “Guess who I just saw holding hands outside of Cel?” Dating apps at UNH are less about romance and more about rolling the dice on social discomfort. Whether you find love, a decent study buddy, or just another reason to stay single, one thing’s for sure—you’re never really swiping on a stranger. You’re just one match away from realizing that your “new potential soulmate” was in Principles of Communication all along. Image by amrothman from Pixabay

DISCLAIMER: These are jokes. Go away if you’re a snowflake. In the grand tradition of higher education, choosing a college major is an opportunity to decide which type of disappointing career you’ll share at the yearly family dinner. Will you take the road to the prestigious world of finance? Perhaps embark on a noble quest to become a professional artist, doomed to a life of “passion projects” and unpaid internships? Let’s break down some of the most popular college majors at UNH and the truth behind each one. 1. Business: The Path to Power, Profit, and Panic Attacks If you’re a business major, chances are you think you're a future leader of the world — assuming you don’t spend the next decade locked in a basement, binge-watching Shark Tank  reruns. These students are generally driven by one clear goal: making money. Lots of it. They’ll boast about their internship at Goldman Sachs or Bank of America and use phrases such as “synergy,” “disruption,” and “let's circle back” to make sure everyone knows they have what it takes to climb the corporate ladder. Of course, your actual job title post-graduation is likely “Assistant to the Regional Manager” at a mid-level corporation, but the dream is still alive. And let’s not forget the consistent dressing in a suit and tie, regardless of the season, weather, or occasion because it makes you better than the rest of those “normies” who wear regular clothes. Gotta get comfortable being uncomfortable… plebs. 2. Psychology: I’m Here to Analyze You, Not Myself If you’re a psychology major, you will most likely spend four years studying the human mind and learning how to psychoanalyze everyone you meet. Let’s be honest though, you probably chose the major because it seemed like an easier option than math, not because you REALLY want to solve the mysteries of the brain. With a degree in psychology, you’ll graduate thinking you can diagnose your friends' emotional issues and traumas, but you’ll probably just end up working at a call center because “helping people” doesn’t come with a salary unless you’re a licensed therapist. That said, you’ll still have a superior understanding of why people enjoy posting vague, cryptic Instagram reels or Bible quotes on their Snap stories. And yes, you’ve probably heard the “if you’re depressed, just study your notes” joke too many times now. 3. English: The Starving Artist’s Starter Pack If you’re an English major, you definitely have a deep connection with words, most of the time at the expense of money in the bank account. You’ll probably be found absolutely springing at the opportunity to quote Shakespeare, Aristotle, or Socrates — not because you actually care about what some old guys from eons ago have to say, but because it’s the only thing you actually understand. Most of their essays usually involve over-analyzing a character’s shoes in Moby-Dick , convinced that they're about to unlock the secrets of the universe with their 20-page paper on the existential implications of a whale, with 10 of those pages turning words like “because” into “owing to the circumstance that” just to fill those word counts. Post-graduation, you’ll probably be either struggling to write for a magazine that hasn’t paid anyone since 2014 or you’ll live in a coffee shop, crafting a biography you started freshman year that you’ll swear up and down is "almost done." 4. Engineering: The Art of Pretending You Understand Calculus If you’re an engineering major, you’re definitely the first to tell anyone who cares enough to listen that you’re working on "big projects" and “solving global problems.” Let’s be real here — most of your time is spent Googling “How to fix a broken calculator” or crying into your pillow because of the amount of number and letter-crunching you have to do to barely solve an equation by 11:59. You chose this major because you think it’ll make you rich, but also because you think you’ll suddenly gain the ability to build a working robot out of an old toaster and a handful of rubber bands. You graduate with the ability to calculate the force required to launch a car into space but still can't figure out how to park one. Post-graduation, you are likely solving important problems at some tech company... until you inevitably end up getting distracted by your fifth “side project” that will “totally change the world… trust me, bro.” 5. Political Science: Preparing for a Lifetime of Disillusionment If your blissfully unaware past self chose political science as your major, you totally started your college journey believing you’ll change the world. By graduation, you’ll be full of existential dread, too disillusioned to ever run for office but just political enough to argue with everyone at Thanksgiving over what Republican and Democrat breathed funny in the other’s direction. You’ll spend hours analyzing voting patterns, reading up on international relations, and volunteering for campaigns, only to find out that your best job option after graduation is becoming an unpaid intern at some unnamable congressman’s office. But don’t worry — you’ll definitely be fine... as long as you can land a job as a political consultant, which you’ll explain time and time again in a series of LinkedIn posts to your two followers from university with whom you have an unspoken rivalry. 6. Art History: The Degree That’s Worth More If You Don’t Use It You art history majors are the brave souls who dedicate your lives to studying paintings and analyzing the brushstrokes of the Renaissance, looking for some hidden meaning behind a tree being skinny. Your main job after graduation? Explaining to mom and dad why a degree that costs $200,000 will result in you working as an “art consultant” at a gallery that has an annual budget smaller than the costs of your student loans. You’ll tell others all about the genius of Michelangelo while quietly panicking about how you’re going to eat that night. That said, your understanding of ancient sculptures will absolutely make you the most interesting guest at any dinner party… if they care to listen to your educated interpretations. 7. Philosophy: For Those Who Want to Think About Thinking (and literally nothing else) If you’re a philosophy major, you KNOW that you’re the true intellectual, sitting at the crossroads of existential questions like “What is the meaning of life?” and “How did I get into so much debt with this degree?” You’ll spend hours debating the finer points of Descartes while secretly wondering if a career in retail is more practical for your brain and wallet. Chances are, you’re so sure that you can solve the world’s problems — that is, until you realize that the world would prefer that you get a job at McDonald's, putting the fries in the bag, where you can talk about Kant while making Happy Meals. A philosophy degree makes you an expert in questioning everything, including whether it was a good idea to get a philosophy degree (it wasn’t). 8. Biology: The Real Reason You’re Avoiding Chemistry I’m willing to bet that you biology majors are obsessed with living things because you simply don’t want to deal with atoms. You spend hours memorizing cell structures, DNA replication, and the life cycle of an amphibian, but when it comes to applying math to science, your timbers are shivered. Biology is the major for the ones who want to help save the planet by becoming medical researchers, wildlife conservationists, or, at worst, biology teachers — just as long as no one asks them to do any advanced equations. After all, they're too busy learning about how to properly cut open frogs and newborn pigs to care about numbers. 9. Communication: Because Your Biggest Talent is Talking. I’ll give props to you communication majors, because you usually tend to be the life of the party. You chose this major because you love to talk and are convinced that the world needs more of your (not so) insightful commentary. You’re the ones who can’t help but deliver a TED Talk on why Twitter and “them liberals” are ruining society, but struggle to figure out how to send an email without accidentally 360 body-slamming that “reply all” button. After graduation, you’ll likely land a job in marketing, PR, or “social media strategy,” which basically means posting “inspirational” Andrew Tate and “The Grind Never Stops” quotes on Instagram and pretending you have your life together, the whole time munching on chips on the couch in your mother’s basement, which you never ended up moving out of because you’re “waiting for the right moment.” 10. Forensic Science: The Ultimate 'CSI' Fantasy Forensic science majors, you guys are the true crime fanatics who believe that watching 16 seasons of CSI  and Law and Order  qualifies you to solve actual crimes. Chances are, you’re in it for the glamour of crime scenes, DNA analysis, and the thrill of cracking cold cases. That is, until you come to the realization that most of your time will be spent running tests on hair samples and telling people that no, they cannot just “analyze a body on the spot” like they do in the TV shows. After four years of studying blood-spatter patterns, toxicology reports, and years-old solved cases, you’ll land a job as a lab technician, where you spend 90% of your day analyzing strange liquids with names you can’t pronounce without feeling like your furniture is gonna start floating, waiting for your “big break” in the field. When you finally get your moment of fame, it’s likely to involve filling out witness paperwork instead of solving murders Sherlock Holmes-style with crappy one-liners. 11. Fire Science: Fighting Fire with… Fire? Ahh… fire science majors. You guys are the brave souls who are convinced you can save the world one blaze at a time. You’ll likely spend four years learning the intricacies of fire safety, emergency response, and how not to burn your eyebrows off while doing it. Despite the flashy career you’re probably envisioning — running into burning buildings while looking heroic in firefighter gear — only to find out that most of your job will involve making sure fire extinguishers are in the right place and checking fire alarms in empty office buildings. But the real payoff comes when you finally join a fire department and get to slide down poles in between catching up on paperwork. (Spoiler: There are no pole slides in reality — it's all about safety checks.) After graduation, you feel like absolute heroes when they’re not sifting through fire incident reports explaining to the public that the fire truck siren is NOT fun to listen to or taking orders from someone your age or younger who jumped the gun on their high school graduation instead of strolling around campus wearing their signature fire science jackets. Campus mythology says that the minute you commit as a fire science major, you gain a jacket with the curse to never be able to take it off. Conclusion: Pick a Major, Any Major At the end of the day, the major you choose is less about what you're actually going to do in life and more about what kind of pretentious elevator pitch you want to give at every networking event and high school reunion for the next 20 years. Choose wisely, or, you know, just pick something that makes your parents happy and hope you can figure something out later. After all, you have four years to pretend to be an expert in something (other than the constant abuse of drugs and caffeine), which is the true purpose of higher education. Disclaimer:  No actual career guidance was provided in the making of this article. LinkedIn Sales Navigator: https://www.pexels.com/es-es/foto/hombre-mirando-fuera-de-la-ventana-con-mochila-negra-y-marron-mientras-sostiene-su-mano-en-la-ventana-1251861/

“Check this out, Senni! I learned this during my time on the frontier.” My father wildly spun his obsidian blade, chopping into the truffles with fierce fervor. Bits and pieces flew from the plate as I watched in pure awe. With a clean sweeping motion, he scooped up the truffles, placing them into the bowl in front of me. “Pretty impressive, right?” he asked, clearly looking for praise. I nodded. His displays were always so fun to watch, though the floor often was caught in the crossfire. However, his smile quickly disappeared as the palm of my mother’s hand found its rightful place on the back of his head. A loud whack echoed across the room. “Ay! Dorian, stop messing around before you end up cutting our daughter!” she scoffed, her eyes widening as she saw the mess on the floor. “Ayha — look at what you did to our floor! Meluika grant me strength in dealing with two children…” “Don’t worry, dear, I’ll make sure to clean this up,” he chuckled. “Oh, so you think you had a choice in the first place? Give me the flaming blade. I’ll handle the rest.” She slid her fingers through my father’s hold, deftly taking the blade. “Let me show you how to do it properly. With a quick flick of the wrist, she brought down the blade with impeccable speed, the cutting board vibrating with fierce intensity. Her cuts were measured, not a single piece escaping the board unlike Father. With every blink, I missed three pristine cuts; another blink, and I missed six more. “See?” she said with a proud grin. “Now that’s how you cut like a real frontier woman.” “Show-off,” he responded, rolling his eyes. I couldn’t believe how elegant and graceful she looked, wielding that worn-out blade like both a weapon and a brush. “That was amazing!” I exulted, barely able to stay in my seat. “When are you going to teach me something like that?” Her eyes grew narrow, hovering over the instrument as she let out an awkward chuckle. “Well, hopefully never,” she stated, tucking her silky hair behind her pointy ear. I cocked my head. She wanted me to learn how to cook on my own one day, so why was she being so hesitant? I shot my dad a glance, but he had already moved to grab the broom near the end of the hallway, almost tripping on the floor cracks as he did. “Um? Why?” I asked hesitantly. “Trust me, daughter, you don’t want a life where these skills are necessary.” “But you always say I should know how to cook, no?” She let out a sigh and put down the blade abruptly. “Yes, but that is different.” Her gaze lingered on the worn handle a moment longer than I expected. “I would much rather you learn just the basics and devote more of your time to learning how to immolate.” My stomach twisted as she brought up that terrifying act — immolation, as the Ashilyr proclaimed it. The thought of letting my own flesh burn, letting those whispers of the heat invade my mind? The Ihpi boy upstairs had recently started experiencing involuntary bouts of immolation. It was a common experience for boys around that age, the heat desiring to escape. Sometimes I could hear him crying through the floorboards, his voice cracked and raw. If that was my future… I wasn’t sure I wanted it. “You’ll need it one day,” she added softly, almost like she didn’t want me to hear. “...But I don’t want to learn immolation.” The words barely escaped my lips. She froze for just a moment. “This again?” she scoffed, her enunciation sharp. “Listen, Seneca, we’ve had this conversation before. I don’t like to repeat myself. Training to become an Ashilyr is only going to help you. Do you want to stay in the lower rings for the rest of your life or worse, get sent to the frontier?” “I…” I should have expected this by now. She wasn’t wrong, of course. I didn’t want to be in the lower rings, and the way my parents spoke about the frontier gave me even less hope on that front. But I didn’t necessarily want to live in the upper rings either, not after seeing the sky at least. “...No,” I grumbled. She smiled after I reluctantly gave in. “I’m glad you understand, Senni. I hope we won’t need to have this discussion again.” We will. “Oh — I have been speaking to Fir. Li about potential teachers, and I think he may have a good connection to—” A loud, deliberate cough cut through her words. My father, broom still in hand, gave her a look. “Maha, you’ve made your point. Maybe let her breathe for five minutes, eh Urii?” Her eyes narrowed slightly at this comment. “Urii” was a term of endearment, though the flattery fell short. Ignoring his comment, she turned her attention back to the bowl of truffles. The small cauldron on the far side of the rustic kitchen had finally started boiling. “I suppose so. I do need to finish up a few things for dinner. We will talk about this later.” She shoved the blade into a drawer and started rummaging through the cabinets — no doubt looking for the last of our spices. “Ah, right.” She stopped for a moment. “How was the art exhibit?” “It was nice,” I said bluntly, still petulant. “Really? That’s all? Dorian, how did you feel about it?” she called out after my dad, barely giving my attitude a second thought. “Oh, brilliant doesn’t even begin to describe it, Maha!” my father beamed, a distinct sparkle in his amber eyes. “I had heard about humans and their paintings, but to see it in person? Meluika, it was a whole different story. Almost put the metallic arts to shame,” he chuckled slightly. “Almost.” “...And they had the sky,” I cut in, the memory flaring bright within me. “An Incrux showed up,” my mother’s ears perked up, “though she kicked us out and stole the art —” I slapped my hand to my mouth in disbelief at the words I just uttered. “I mean — she rightfully reclaimed it for the Ashilyr.” “I see…” Her voice was calm, decisive. “Then it’s a good thing you’re going to be one of them.”

As many of you know, I'm always rooting for my team. But I also take pride in rooting for this school. This week, we're spotlighting some incredible highlights from the College of Arts and Sciences, particularly the Communications Department. The communications department offers three concentration paths for our students to choose from. First, we have film production and media entrepreneurship. Second, there's multi-platform journalism and media, including television production. Finally, my pick: public relations and Digital Media. A concentration in film production and media shapes communications in many ways. If these topics pique your interest, you could find yourself working on cinematography, screenwriting, playwriting or film editing. You'll learn to harness your creativity and acquire skills actively used in the industry. You'll gain hands-on experience with state-of-the-art studio equipment and editing software. Some of the fantastic instructors guiding you on this journey include Wayne Edwards, Paul Falcone, Nicki Chavoya, Diane Smith, Dean Pagani and Susanne Murphy, along with our department. Have you ever dreamed of becoming a globetrotter? Paul Falcone and Tom Garrett will help you become a star-studded director. In the Film 2 course, you'll have the chance to work with a real crew, go through the casting process and screen an entire student film. You'll pitch and create a movie from scratch, and after the process, you could submit your film for an Emmy and multiple film festivals. Garrett will even encourage you to attend the Cannes Film Festival to walk the red carpet, watch screenings with the stars and live the Interested in student media? Join our live news broadcast, Charger Bulletin News, either as a class or just for fun. Our live broadcast was recently submitted to the New England division of the Emmys. Staying put in the studio? Check out Charger 360, the official video podcast of the University of New Haven. Each episode features guests from across the university with the goal of giving you a 360-degree view of the amazing things happening in Charger Nation. Our department also provides opportunities to intern with organizations such as ESPN, Lionsgate, NBC Sports and Disney. Here, you'll participate in real-world meetings and experiences, especially in sports communication, Wayne Edwards' area of ​​expertise. Interested in pursuing sports management, communications or business? A sports communication minor can complement a sports management or business major, providing skills in media relations, marketing, and broadcasting. This opens opportunities in teams, agencies, media outlets and sports organizations, where communication is key to business success. Edwards also teaches a course titled “Race, Gender, Class in the Media,” exploring the evolving relationship between human relations and equity in the workforce. Not into TV and film? Nicki Chavoya's music video class will capture your attention. In this course, you'll learn how to produce high-quality productions in a short amount of time, sourcing your musicians. In the final project, you'll create a music video that could also win an Emmy. This is not just a far-off dream—just last year, Harley Angelillo's production, Hope You Like Roses  by Powder, won an Emmy. Now, let's shift to multi-platform journalism and media, where you might find yourself writing for The New York Times  or winning a Pulitzer Prize. Look at the dreamer in you! Our department is home to award-winning journalists, including those with Pulitzer-level experience, who mentor students in pursuing authentic media literacy. These are the mentors who will guide you to success. The journalism track at UNH prepares students for careers in top publications, giving them the tools to navigate the fast-paced media industry. Whether you're starting in the widely popular class “Communications and the Law” — which draws the lines between law and morality in the media — or learning AP style writing in our student newspaper or digital (soon-to-be print) magazine, you'll have plenty of opportunities. You can also get involved in Charger Bulletin  live news, where you could become the producer or director of our broadcast. You'll use our media hub to explore journalism and the role of technology in the industry. Our radio studio, WNHU, is right across the street, so if you've ever dreamed of creating your own YouTube show, now's the time to make it happen. Bruce Barber, our radio supervisor and esteemed faculty member with years of experience, will guide you into the world of audio perspectives. Does the idea of ​​slowing things down appeal to you? Consider taking the “Telling Digital Stories” course, which provides students with the foundation to report with integrity and accuracy, taught by Susanne Murphy and Nicki Chavoya. In this class, you'll explore multi-platform journalism, digital media and equality in our community while simultaneously using audio, images and video to tell compelling stories about real-world experiences. Through guest speakers, networking opportunities and hands-on training, students gain real-world experience in journalism and media ethics. The communications department provides extensive journalism opportunities, from student-run media to award-winning publications. Finally, wrapping up the list with public relations and digital media. Key classes include “Telling Digital Stories,” “Public Relations Principles & Practices,” “Social Impact of Media” and “Communication in Organizations.” New classes coming in fall 2025 include “Photojournalism History and Practice” and “Writing for Newsletters, Daily Briefings, and News Analysis,” both taught by Dean Pagani. Pagani is a public relations expert who brings years of experience to the classroom. “Photojournalism History and Practice” explores the history of photojournalism, its impact on public affairs and ethics, and its evolution to the present day. The course “Writing for Newsletters, Daily Briefings, and News Analysis” focuses on delivering news, engaging in independent journalism and learning how to communicate internally within businesses and organizations. “Public Relations Principles & Practices” introduces students to the role public relations plays in today's business, social, political and cultural environments. You'll gain real-world experience that you can apply to everyday life. “Social Impact of Media” looks at issues like media regulation, law, ethics and the behavioral aspects of mass and interpersonal communication. You'll also write your own media messages. Lastly, “Communication in Organizations” is an industry-based course that addresses real-world, complex problems and case studies. If you're still not convinced but are lurking in the shadows of switching, maybe the general communications minor is for you. The University of New Haven's communication minor teaches effective communication, media literacy and public speaking. One of your core classes is “Intro to Communications” with professor Diane Smith. Students gain skills in conveying ideas, analyzing media and improving interpersonal interactions, which are valuable across various careers. Please note the following two requirements: You may not declare a major and minor in the same program, and a minimum GPA of 2.0 is required. Wow, we've covered a lot of info here! I do not doubt that if you aren't already captivated by these opportunities, you will be soon. We have a knack for drawing people in—probably because every project we create is, let's be honest, award-winning! With industry-changing faculty, hands-on experiences and endless opportunities, this isn't just a program—it's your launchpad. The world is always yours to explore.

Well, no. Of course, yes cannot mean no. Or can it? Consent is defined as a voluntary agreement between participants of an activity, often sexual. True consent is not coerced, meaning consent is negated in scenarios involving force, intimidation or threats. However, this definition is too broad for the variety of situations that can occur. What if one participant is drunk? What if both participants are? What about individuals who cannot legally give approval, such as those under the age of consent? These are simplified situations. We've all seen movies where a woman feigns disapproval while contradicting it with body language and facial expressions. Films throughout history have romanticized nonconsensual sex and created the impression that women are always interested. Media has distorted the idea of consent, sexualizing women and emphasizing masculinity, while filmmakers have been pressured into reinforcing these stereotypes to appeal to the masses. So, how can one be sure they have given or received consent? The simple answer is to say “yes,” but it must be intentional. Body language must reflect approval. There cannot be hesitation or ambiguity; otherwise, the consent is technically void. It can feel like a lot of pressure to give or receive proper approval, and ensuring consent can be stressful. Here are some tips to ensure appropriate consent: Practice enthusiastic consent.  It may sound unnecessary, but it is a valid method. Enthusiastic consent is a newer term that defines a positive expression of consent. According to the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN), the country's largest anti-sexual violence organization, “Enthusiastic consent means looking for the presence of a ‘yes’ rather than the absence of a ‘no.’” This consent form involves extra communication and body language to ensure confirmation and comfort. Examples include nodding, positive feedback and repeated verbal confirmation during the activity. Do not proceed if you receive mixed signals.  Mixed signals are often a sign of hesitation or reluctance. If a person says yes but seems unsure, they may have felt pressured or are not entirely comfortable. No matter the situation, mixed signals do not mean “yes" and therefore void consent. Stop and ask questions to help them feel safe and heard. You can change your mind at any time.  Consent can be withdrawn at any point. Saying yes once does not mean yes indefinitely. Additionally, just because a participant gave consent before does not guarantee consent in the future. No one should feel pressured to say yes because of past experiences or their relationship with the other participant. Decisions should be based solely on the present moment and current feelings. If they say no, that’s it.  You stop, and you move on. There is no argument to be made. It is important to respect consent, as it reflects not only on your respect for the participant but also for yourself. Many factors can influence a participant’s answer. As mentioned before, all members of the party must avoid force, intimidation and threats. However, this generalizes a wide range of situations. Many forms of manipulation can be used to elicit a “yes” from someone who is unwilling. One of the most common forms of manipulation that impacts consent is guilt-tripping. A participant may intentionally pressure the other by appealing to their sympathy or pity , making it easier for the unwilling individual to change their mind. Humans naturally want to satisfy the desires of those they care about. However, guilt-tripping can also be unintentional. A disappointed reaction to rejection can unintentionally sway the other person. No matter whether guilt-tripping is intentional or not, it should not influence consent. It is not your fault. While consent is difficult to define with strict rules, it is simple to recognize. There should never be uncertainty about whether all participants are willing. Communication is the foundation of consent. In 2025, we all need to talk and listen to each other, especially in intimate situations. We should be able to express ourselves openly without judgment or confusion, while also respecting others for who they are and what they want. This is the year we choose to voice our concerns, desires and boundaries freely.

Q: What inspired you to create To See The Sky, such a unique fantasy story? A: Well, I have always loved stories that play around with the concept of freedom, whether this be mental, physical or emotional. So I thought to myself, how would I create a story where multiple versions of freedom could be challenged? Thus, I created Llanka, a small country where the Melawa are unable to leave. I also have always liked the idea of rainfall being a narrative core to any of the stories I have created in the past so I wanted to expand on that. There are many different natures to the rain than meets the eye that I have yet to show but eventually I will get there. Q: What was your creative process like while drafting? A: So whenever the idea of creating something comes to mind, I like to start drawing! Whether these are very detailed character concepts or just scribbles with vague descriptions, I like getting the ideas out there so that it manifests in the world if even just for a moment. It inspires me to give the doodles a story and from then on I just keep going! Q: Do you have any writers you look up to or see as role models? A: My three favorites are easily Yoko Taro, Inio Asano and Haruko Ichikiawa. They each have this weird and unique way about creating their stories that emotionally impacted me in a way I did not feel was possible. In fact, Yoko Taro is one of the core reasons why my end goal is to become a Narrative designer/Creative Director for video games in the first place! The way he uses games to further immerse the audience deeper into the overall narrative is genius. This is mainly seen in my favorite game, NieR: Automata. As for Inio Asano and Haruko Ichikawa, they are both mangaka who have such deep and depressing thematic cores surrounding their stories that I can’t help but love. Whether it is the sacrifice that comes with change in Houseki no Kuni(Ichikawa) or the angsty coming of age story amidst a deeply flawed and often painful reality seen in Oyasumi Punpun(Asano). Both resonate with me deeply and going on with my life I often think a lot about the messages seen in both of these stories. Q: Did you have any ideas for To See The Sky that didn't work out? A: I wanted to showcase a bit more of the tribes and lifestyles of those around the 3 different rings. But there is just so much to work with in some 9-10 issues that I simply won’t have enough time to cover all of them. That doesn’t mean I won’t show them off more in the future seeing as “Tales Of Llanka” is planned to be a collection of short-ish stories to build up the world and culture. Q: What elements of the world of Lanka were the hardest to build? Which were your favorite? A: Without a doubt it’s creating a society that is forced to live within a small area that is constantly plagued with perpetual downpour, creatures from the abyss and unpredictable weather that makes life living quite a daring task. There is also creating the magic system which I have yet to showcase yet in the story but it is both simple and confusing but I hope to show it off in a way that is interesting! My favorite element of the world of Llanka is without a doubt, the various tribes that live within Llanka. Each has their own role to play with some being more important than others, there are certain exceptions where people can switch tribes but that is yet to be seen! Q: What are your goals with To See The Sky? A: Well I don’t have too much time to write all I want to do with the story but my goal is without a doubt to build the foundation of the world! Seneca is only just a fragment of what I have planned out but I really want to flesh out and grow the world through her eyes. Eventually, when I finish I will branch off the story to focus on the main plot of Llanka but for now this is just a sneak peek for what’s going to come in the next years! Q: If you had to give one piece of advice to any beginner writer, what would you say? A: Oh that’s a hard one, mainly since I consider myself a beginner writer myself! I haven’t done much so far but I think one of the most important things one can do is just put yourself out there. I’m not 100% sure how “To See The Sky” is going to go or if it will even end in a good way since it’s my first ongoing and official story. However, I feel it is important that I do it regardless of anything. How am I going to get better if I don’t mess up every now and then, right? One of the biggest fears writers have going into making anything creative is “Is this good? Will people enjoy this?” But I think the most important part is, do you enjoy it? Regardless of anything? You have to write for yourself first and foremost. Otherwise, what’s the point! Joshua Lozano

I remember the first day I walked along the sidewalks, rich, dark green grass tickling my shoes,  while Bergami Hall stopped me in my tracks.  Time passed, classes continued, and relationships bloomed. The busy moments swallowed me whole and spit me out,  teaching me to slow down and take a breath.  I keep moving forward, not dwelling on the whispers behind me. Now, it's time—time to settle into reality.  Graduation is two months away, yet I have more to do than ever before.  My story isn’t finished; it’s not time yet. I’m not ready. This isn’t the end, just a turning page.  I’ve reached the close of a chapter, not the final act.  I started here, and now I’m moving on. My time here has ended,  but the wisdom I’ve gained propels me forward. I’m eager. I’m ready now. Image by Ralph from Pixabay

Contributing Writer Patch Bowen "Dear Colleague:" A letter with chilling implications from the U.S. Department of Education's Office for Civil Rights was sent to universities nationwide as Trump's administration ramps up pressure on DEI initiatives. According  to the letter from the Department of Education's  acting assistant secretary, Craig Trainor, all universities that receive federal funds are supposedly mandated to remove diversity, equity, and inclusion programs from their administrative departments. The deadline was Feb. 28, and it now falls on educational institutions to implement what may be sweeping policy changes. The University of New Haven has yet to respond with official statements. Still, the dissonance is apparent in the Myatt Center for Diversity & Inclusion and its retracted DEI office changes. How can changes happen without warning, yet no one claims responsibility in the administration? Just five days after the letter reached campus on February 19, the Myatt Center for Diversity and Inclusion's Diversity Peer Educators were instructed to remove "Diversity and Inclusion" from the office's name, drop programs and meetings related to heritage months, race, or other topics under the diversity umbrella, and refer to the student work-study positions as simply "Peer Educators."  "I think the decision is going to have immediate effects that we can likely predict for certain populations," said Kenneth Notorino-Jeffreys, Myatt assistant director, "but there's going to be many unintended effects that we don't realize we are going to see."  He said, "Not only am I fearful for how our students of underrepresented communities are going to internalize these decisions that are being made, but also the identities that folks oftentimes don't realize fall within this aspect of "DEI.'” Much of what students have heard from staff and faculty has come indirectly, and students say that not much has been made directly clear regarding school DEI policies—students who’ve followed the national media coverage of Pres. Trump's executive orders know that the developing administration is set on dismantling equitable practice under civil rights law despite the blockage of the lower courts and Congress. In late January, some semblance of reassurance came from University President Jens Frederiksen and Darby Brown, president of the Undergraduate Student Government Association (USGA), who said in a recent executive officer report, "The University is committed to its students and, as Jens often quotes, 'the human good.’” Brown also said: "First, many of these directives are regarding corporate businesses, and not much has been explicitly said about higher education. Second, the University is private, so if anything were to come out on the federal level, there is a more substantial possibility it will not affect us because of our status as a private institution. "[Lastly,] we briefly discussed concerns about budget cuts or related items. I still understand what the business and financial terms mean; however, he and I are working on a date in March/April for him to return to the USGA and speak about that and some other University initiatives. All this is to say, your concerns are heard, and so long as we are still here, we will continue to relay and communicate them to the University Administration." As reported by the Guardian, US District Judge Adam Abelson recently blocked the federal DEI bans. Thus, it is impossible to predict how the campus could be legally bound or how the nearly 1,000 BIPOCs in the community will be affected. As of last week, the Myatt returned "for Diversity and Inclusion" to its title, reposted Diversity Peer Educator graphics edited to censor mentions of DEI the previous week, and informed student staff that everything will continue as it has at an administrative level. They're also referencing questions asked to DPEs who requested to remain off-record. Administrators and students expect the enforcement of anti-DEIAB( Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, Accessibility, and Belonging) laws to be strict and, as the letter promises, will impact all corners of education. Invoking the legal precedent set by Students for Fair Admissions v. Harvard (SFFA, 2023),  which rescinded affirmative action for higher education admissions, the letter aggressively reasserts the federal government's aims to "eradicate DEI" and so-called "woke ideology" through executive power.  Students should keep up with the latest reporting on federal actions at Charger Bulletin, Charger Bulletin News, and Horseshoe. Photo Credits University of New Haven

Contributing Writer Neha Jelemu Late into the night, a half-eaten muffin sits on my desk as I prepare for the next day. Yet, in the quiet moments, I find myself wondering: what exactly did I accomplish today? I’ve always seen life as a sequence of actions without a clear destination. My mind is my most formidable foe, and every day is a battle. Morning arrives with an existential question: What am I doing? Where am I going?  There are no simple answers. If there were an award for taking on the most difficult tasks head-on, I might be a top contender. Each day brings a new adventure, but today felt particularly intense. My toughest obstacle was my own mind, spiraling out of control over a life-changing decision. After what seemed like an eternity of analyzing every possibility, I realized that shaping my thoughts—rather than being consumed by them—was progress. Still, some days, like today, bring an overwhelming sense of fatigue and disorientation, while others flood me with an inexplicable joy—dopamine surging through my system like an unstoppable force. How can I even describe this sensation? It’s more excruciating than the worst menstrual cramps; it feels like my brain itself is seizing up. I have learned more from life than I ever imagined possible. At 25, I feel like I’ve lived 50 years’ worth of experiences. Some days, I question what truly makes me human. Is it my intellect, which never stops asking questions, or my heart, which never stops feeling? I've always been a cheerful, vivacious, and multi-talented woman. I thrive on multitasking, yet today, I spent hours trying to understand why I was feeling this way. Before I knew it, noon had arrived, and my stomach reminded me that eating is non-negotiable, no matter my emotions. With my limited cooking skills, I managed to prepare a simple egg dish—a small but necessary victory. Later, I decided to go to the gym, hoping exercise would help me decompress. As soon as I stepped inside, I found myself wondering why everyone else was there. Were they all simply working on their bodies, or were some, like me, using exercise as an escape from internal battles? Drawn to a Zumba class, I stepped in, eager to experience the energy of dance. By the end of the session, I was drenched in sweat—but I felt truly alive. Back home, I threw myself into my laptop, determined to be productive before the day ended. After all, isn’t self-worth measured by output? Just as I was losing myself in my work, my phone rang. It was my mother, calling to remind me not to overthink things. “What’s the worst that could happen?”  she often asks. “There’s nothing too big to be afraid of.”  Her words ground me. She is my constant source of motivation, the force that holds my world together. Overthinking has become a staple of my daily routine. Back in India, I was different—carefree, unburdened by the endless arguments in my head. But living alone, managing responsibilities, and navigating adulthood in a foreign country have changed me. And that’s okay. Change reshapes life, brings fresh perspectives, and teaches valuable lessons. Still, I need to break free from this cycle of overthinking. The real question remains: brain or heart?  Which one should I trust? One pushes me forward, while the other keeps me reflective. Through it all, my career has been my anchor. No matter what life throws at me, my determination to succeed never wavers. Whether it’s six in the morning or midnight, my ambition drives me forward. My career is one of the things I am most proud of. In life, I may lose many things—but not this. It is the one aspect of my identity I can claim with absolute certainty. Despite everything, I know I’m doing okay. No matter how difficult the journey, I never fail to give my all. I see life as a game of chess—each person making their moves, navigating their own strategies and battles. I will continue making mine, but I will keep them unpredictable. Because in this game, my greatest advantage is the element of surprise. Original Photo by Neha Jelemu

SPOILERS AHEAD If you’ve been in anime spaces for longer than five minutes, you’ve probably heard about JoJo’s Bizarre Adventure —the meme-fueled, genre-defying and beautifully unhinged series that has been running since 1987. Hirohiko Araki’s magnum opus has influenced everything from modern shonen  to high fashion, proving that posing dramatically while discussing bloodlines is, in fact, peak storytelling. As a filmmaker and storyteller, JoJo’s  has impacted the way I think about character depth and narrative payoff. Every part is a self-contained yet interconnected saga that plays with genre, visual language and emotion in ways that mainstream media often avoids. But perhaps the most impressive thing about JoJo’s  is how, despite spanning generations, some character traits remain deeply embedded in the Joestar lineage. And today, I’m here to argue something that should be obvious but doesn’t get enough credit: Jolyne Cujoh is the true successor to Jonathan Joestar—not just in bloodline, but in spirit. Jonathan is the gentleman of the Joestar family, a man so honorable he could probably hold the door open for you while actively fighting a vampire. He’s noble, kind and selfless to a fault. On the surface, Jolyne seems to be the opposite—angsty, rebellious and flipping off her dad in a Florida prison, but at her core, she is the closest to Jonathan any JoJo has ever been. Like him, she never hesitates to fight for others, never compromises her sense of justice and willingly sacrifices herself to protect the people she loves. Jonathan meets his end stopping Dio, knowing he won’t live to see the future he fought for. Jolyne faces Pucci, aware that she’s walking into certain death just to make sure Emporio has a chance to survive. The first JoJo and the last JoJo in the original timeline share more than just a bloodline—they share the belief that true heroism isn’t about winning. It’s about making sure that, even if you fail, someone else gets to stand. And that’s why Jolyne Cujoh is the most Jonathan-like Joestar to ever exist. This kind of storytelling is what makes JoJo’s  so legendary. It isn’t just about fight scenes, bizarre abilities or the absurdity that has made it a staple in pop culture. It’s about legacy. The series itself is a testament to how powerful originality can be when a creator dares to push beyond conventions. That’s something I think about every time I sit down to write, plan or conceptualize a project. I have always wanted to create something that leaves a mark, something that people don’t just consume but feel. A piece of media that sits with them long after they’ve experienced it, changing the way they see the world, if only a little. Every great storyteller dreams of this. And yet, the hardest part isn’t having the dream—it’s figuring out how to make something that lasts. Before JoJo’s , I gravitated toward media that played with bold ideas. I’ve always admired projects that stand out, that don’t try to fit a mold but instead reshape the entire landscape of storytelling. I knew I wanted to do something like that, but I didn’t know what my version of it looked like. Then, I found JoJo’s Bizarre Adventure , and suddenly, everything clicked. JoJo’s  isn’t afraid to be original. Araki takes massive creative risks, and yet, no matter how wild things get, it all works because of the underlying emotional core. You can have characters with the most absurd abilities—a guy who fights with spaghetti, a sentient colony of ants, a literal rock human—and it still feels real because the characters themselves are deeply human. They love, they struggle and they grow. The emotions are raw and unapologetic. That’s what makes it great. The commitment to reinvention is another thing that makes JoJo’s  unlike anything else. Every part of the series resets the playing field—new protagonist, new setting, new stakes—but it never loses its identity. The DNA of JoJo’s  is consistent, no matter how much the surface changes. That is something I think about constantly when developing stories. Can I make something that is uniquely mine but still evolves? Can I create a project that carries my voice even if I tell completely different stories? Then there’s the sheer confidence of it all. JoJo’s Bizarre Adventure  is not a series that second-guesses itself. It is dramatic, absurd, deeply emotional and unafraid of being too much. That kind of fearlessness is what I want to bring into my work. It’s easy to get caught up in doubts—will people like this, will this work, is this idea too weird? The greatest stories come from people who commit to their vision fully. Araki’s ability to just go for it has pushed me to do the same. This is especially important in the projects I’m working on right now. I’m at a point where I feel like I’m finally carving out the kind of stories I want to tell. The film I’m making, the creative risks I’m taking, the way I approach storytelling—it’s all influenced by what I’ve learned from JoJo’s . Not just in style, but in philosophy. I want to create things that people remember. I want to make stories that push boundaries and make audiences feel something, whether that’s awe, heartbreak or just the simple joy of experiencing something truly unique. And, honestly? That’s why I love Jolyne and Jonathan so much. They represent what I want to achieve. They stand tall in the face of impossible odds, knowing they might not make it out, but still fight with everything they have. They believe in something bigger than themselves. That’s what I want to do with my work. I want to create something that matters, even if it means taking risks. I want to leave behind something that, years from now, someone can look at and say, this changed me.  That’s what JoJo’s  did for me, and if I can capture even a fraction of that in my own creations, then I’ll know I’m on the right path. Original Photo by Sydney Field

As I approach the halfway mark of my college career while preparing for my third year at the University of New Haven, I’ve taken some time to reflect on my experiences. I’m midway through my journey, and it can be daunting to realize that once my time is up, all I’ll have left are the experiences and wisdom I’ve gained. I want to chronicle and share my experiences with younger students so they can learn what I learned through trial and error. The Importance of Mental Health in College Coming to college, I brushed off everyone who told me that university is a completely different game from high school, with more challenges than meets the eye. During my first few weeks of freshman year, I believed every upperclassman who told me “just you wait” was just trying to scare me—until I experienced firsthand what it truly meant to be away from my comfort zone, surrounded by people I didn’t know, all by myself. I grew up poor, so my family has never been able to help me. The first thing I learned about was the pressure. I had to be locked in almost 24/7. Especially on this small campus, maintaining the image of someone who is put together is incredibly important, including in my own living space. I felt like I was constantly being judged. I had to be “on” all the time and prepared for my peace to be interrupted at any moment—by friends and newfound enemies alike. I cannot emphasize enough how important mental health is in college. You’re away from home, surrounded by strangers. The most unexpected things will happen to keep you on your toes, and you quickly learn that classes are only a small part of your college experience. How I Manage My Mental Health Navigating these hurdles over the past two years has been a rough game of trial and error, with the stakes higher than ever before. I had to find my peace and my outlet while dealing with overwhelming feelings—feeling like I was the “ugly friend” and not understanding what was happening half the time. I was a 17-year-old who had graduated early, surrounded by adults. The biggest step I took—and one I’ve never looked back on—was committing to the gym. I had been lifting since high school, but I never took it seriously. At first, I worked out because I wanted to attract women the way one of my friends seemed to do effortlessly. I wanted his confidence, physique and charm. But during my sophomore year, I found friends in the gym community, and my perspective changed. The gym became more than just a way to look good—it became a way to feel confident, release energy when I was angry, and clear my head when dealing with social or academic stress. Now, I’m a completely different person in terms of both appearance and self-perception. I surrounded myself with people who were better than me, and in turn, they pushed me every day—to lift more, take that step, do one more rep even when I was practically in tears. The gym became something I could wake up and be excited about, all while becoming healthier and more confident in myself. One of the most stressful parts of college for me has been juggling assignments, exams and extracurriculars (including the one you’re reading right now). I used to cope by pulling all-nighters, sleeping through entire days and missing classes just to play catch-up at night. I developed a serious caffeine addiction—to the point where I couldn’t hold a conversation unless I was sipping a Celsius or a coffee. It was dangerous. I had to change, or my heart wouldn’t keep up with my body. By sophomore year, I discovered the Pomodoro technique, which changed the way I worked. I was diagnosed with ADHD, and the Pomodoro technique allowed me to work in short, high-intensity bursts rather than slogging through five assignments in a row. I’d work for 30 minutes, listening to music, then take a 15-minute break. This method motivated me, and I’ve ended up getting more done than ever before. I used to think that being constantly busy was the key to success—until I had a complete nervous breakdown. I locked myself in my room and stayed in bed for days. I wouldn’t even leave to eat unless my roommate and friend forced me to. But assignments piled up, and I ended up failing my first class. Let me make this clear: Staying constantly busy will never end well for you. It never has, and it never will. Taking time to pursue things you love for your “now” instead of your “later” is crucial to long-term success. Watch a movie, go for a walk, climb into sewers with your friends (as I did). Have fun—you’re still a teenager, and it’s imperative that you build that “unc” (or aunt) lore for your future kids. While I’m not big on meditation—I fall asleep whenever I try it—I’ve found that taking a few minutes to breathe deeply and focus on the present helps me calm down when things get chaotic. When something makes you anxious or stressed—whether it’s an assignment, a toxic ex, or a looming deadline on a project you should’ve started three weeks ago—step back. Leave the room, take a walk and breathe. This will keep you from crashing or making impulsive decisions. Building a Support System Having a solid support system has been key for me. Over the past two years, I’ve learned that some people will actively root for your downfall and take steps to make it happen. But I’ve also found real friends—the ones I’m still close with today. As a wise man once said, “Are you surrounding yourself with people who throw wood on your fire or those who throw piss on it?” Surround yourself with people who share your goals and genuinely enjoy your company. They are the only ones you need; anyone else is a detriment to your mental health and success. Trust your gut when it comes to the people around you—it rarely lies. Who knows? You may even find your special someone along the way. Seeking Professional Help I came into college thinking I had it all figured out, as if I didn’t need support or guidance (famous last words). Therapy is an important resource and never hurts to try if the need arises. While therapy depends on your insurance, the University of New Haven offers Counseling and Psychological Services (CAPS), which is accessible by appointment or walk-in. I currently see a therapist, and he has given me a fresh perspective and valuable advice on many of the problems I face day to day. If you’re considering off-campus therapy, make sure your insurance covers it—otherwise, you could end up paying hundreds of dollars out of pocket. Conclusion I’m not perfect, nor will I claim to have mastered every strategy I’ve mentioned. No one has it all figured out, and no one ever will. College is a first-time experience for most, and every journey is different. It’s important to remember that the steps described by anyone—including me—don’t have to be followed to the letter. Remember this: You’re still a kid. You have so much growing to do. Mistakes will be made, but it’s up to you whether you learn and grow from them or not. Photo by Madison Inouye